If we're going to troll about women's bodies, let's go all in.
She's also changing her name to Eccentrica Gallumbits.
What's the minimum cost of directly financing all four years of college education plus expenses plus whatever else? It's got to be close to $100k total at an absolute minimum, right, probably on the order of $50k or more a year? How many people can we be talking about? You have to (a) have the income (b) want to do this (c) have a means of shielding expenditures like that from your spouse/anybody else interested. I mean I'm not saying it's nobody, we've all been to the bar at the Peninsula Hotel and seen what goes down, but it's got to be a pretty limited clientele.
Triops has got one that looks up, and one that looks around. And one to keep an eye on the other pair of guys.
You didn't read the article, did you, Mr. Halford?
I don't think they're possibly covering tuition. I think they're covering lavish gifts. I mostly got this idea because the ultimate sweet set-up is to get a credit card, and Daddy isn't going to want to see Tuition to Yale appear on that.
3: First, of course, I think you're absolutely right about the very limited number of people, if any, who are actually doing this. This is a trend in exactly the same sense the House and Garden reporting in the Times is about ordinary New Yorkers.
But to the extent that it's happening in reality, this would be money that didn't show up on financial aid forms, so impecunious college student X wouldn't be paying full freight out of what her 'employer' was paying her, but just the part financial aid didn't cover.
I swear this article gets published every three years.
5 -- I just skimmed it in under a minute, but I think said that the website has 2.3 million"babies" signed up (which sure seems improbable, and man o man is that term gross -- you know something really not sexy? A: babies) and that they target men who earn more than $5M/year. Which isn't nobody but not a huge population either, especially when you consider points (b) and (c).
I'd bet many of them make only $4.5 million.
I mean at that level of income and ability to conceal expenses and your behavior why not just get an ordinary mistress? Who, sure, you have to take on vacations and to fancy meals or whatever but without the underlying ongoing huge financial arrangement and commitment. I think this is either all total nonsense or it's just purely short-term hooking (maybe with regular customers, but still pretty direct fee-for-service with limited ongoing relationship) in 95% of cases.
How much does an ordinary mistress cost? I'd think they expect more than dinner and trip if you're rich and old.
Someone must have called this the Uber for "arrangements" by now.
Is this not just a sub genre of the "rainbow party" style of apocryphal journalism?
PARENTS... if you aren't covering all your daughter's bills at college... SHE MAY BE A PROSTITUTE
it's just purely short-term hooking (maybe with regular customers, but still pretty direct fee-for-service with limited ongoing relationship) in 95% of cases
I thought that was supposed to be obvious.
My guess is that the site is primarily a scam to get men to part with the $1200 initiation fee, and that they planted the article to enhance the scam.
That article is focusing on this high-end site, but, this being America, these arrangements run the gamut, with all the attendant class-based insecurities, inequalities and risks:
http://fakesugardaddiesexposed.wordpress.com/
I was hoping for a photo of a sugar daddy climbing the Holocaust Memorial.
4: Man, now you have that song in my head.
17: one of the websites mentioned there had a billboard truck next to the M25 in Essex for years saying it was "where ATTRACTIVE and SUCCESSFUL people meet". After a while it gained a message saying "CONGRATULATIONS COLIN AND SUZANNE - WEDDING OF THE YEAR". It kept that for a couple of years too.
Who actually has a mistress?
It seemed like the way it worked was that nobody was paying full tuition for anyone. But that they had a small-ish number if regulars with some small level of commitment.
Who actually has a mistress?
Republican members of Congress, various plutocrats, and Scott Baio.
I think Halford just means why not have an affair. Which attests to remarkable lack of reading comprehension even for a zippy scan, but the man should be cut some slack as this is clearly the cris de coeur of a parent of a very young baby: "man o man is that term gross -- you know something really not sexy? A: babies)", so presumably he's got some impairment of brain function going on from lack of sleep and whatnot.
Pretty obviously from the article (skimmed) the impediments to just having an affair are all bound up in power issues, a chasm were normal social skills would typically be found and fear of emotional equals. "but if they'd only think of the savings!" kind of misses the mark.
I am surprised, these years later, to get comment 2 without having to think about it.
The OP suggestion seemed to be that there were significant numbers of men paying out for a long term deal in which they pay college women's expenses and tuition over a long period of time in exchange for sex. Actually reading the article at more than a skim makes it clear that there's nothing more going on than ordinary short-term prostitution.
The opening anecdote of the article caused me to spend an inordinately long amount of time puzzling over train schedules, driving times, and restaurant opening hours. None of it makes any sense.
It could have been a weekend instead of a Tuesday; then the Dinky might not have been running after 11. But can you really get dinner in a fancy restaurant in New York starting at ~1 AM?
If you can make it there, you can do a bank manager. New York, New York.
31 worthy of A Loos herself. Is Moby really a diminutive, wise-cracking, closeted lesbian, right wing author of light fiction and screenplays?!??!!!
BTW, Moby,and I say this affectionately, the bangs were ill-advised from about age 70 onwards.
Her first husband was John Emerson. OMG
And what a marriage! I particularly liked the placebo operations. I know son world class hypochondriacs, but he was in the intergalactic leagues.
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One of the many things this blog has taught me is that the correct term is "gripping hand".
Far be it from me to imply anything untoward about any of our commenters, all of whom I esteem highly, but it does not surprise me at all that Knecht is the one who sent this in.
I didn't know you worked for LinkedIn, neb.
Surely there are some humans involved in the management of LinkedIn.
I meant to imply that I do whatever pays the bills, though, such as for example working for LinkedIn.
But I suppose you would know better than me the nature of your unfeeling algorithmic overlords.
So it's that time of day/night again, huh.
50: As opposed to the sugar babies in the OP, who do indeed do whoever pays the bills.
I probably won't stay up very late tonight though, since I'm exhausted. I got up at 5 to catch a flight, then did a bunch of other stuff.
I hope you had a good day despite those trials.
That probably sounded facetious, but it was sincerely meant.
In fact the meeting I presented at this morning went very well, which was especially good because it was the thing I was most nervous about during this whole trip. I'm presenting a couple more times during this conference, but those are much less high-stakes and nervewracking than this one.
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60: Did you perform a live fracking?
Nah, we have plenty of regular gas up here and don't need to frack.
Anyway, the main thing that made it nervewracking was that the audience contained several state legislators, some of whom had been directly involved in establishing the programs I was reporting on. They were happy with my presentation, though, so it was all good.
And at least I didn't say "fuck it, I quit" on live TV.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxPTQDP2bRQ
Rawlings with a G.
They played this tonight too. A Missoula audience does not sit quietly and listen like these folks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Def5J2wQP9M
I was imagining something like: "We just can't compete with new sources of fuels. Frack it, I quit."
Or possibly a reference to a mink. Although I guess Alaskan politicians save that for Congress.
That woman was a true American hero. First tier member of lazy Valhalla when she dies.
My guess is that the site is primarily a scam to get men to part with the $1200 initiation fee, and that they planted the article to enhance the scam
Agree completely.
The ease with which one can plant a story with a "journalist" is really shocking.
We should make up a story and have someone pitch it to huffington post or buzzfeeed.
The thing that got me about the original article was the reference to "post sex apartment decorating" -- "God, darling, I just love to bury my face in your swatch!"
It might actually be a cheap way to get an up and coming decorator.
That actually reminded me of Rosie O'Donnell, in some idiotic movie where she's an undercover cop in a BDSM resort, saying to someone who's offering to lick her boots or similar, "You want to fulfill my fantasy? Paint my house!"
76: That's an old Rodney Dangerfield joke.
(maybe he didn't make it up either)
Once one has documentary evidence that an older, wealthy, married man has been having an affair with you, it should be fairly easy to persuade him to pay for your college education.
A college education is a lot of money. I'd generally expect the Duke of Wellington's reaction.
The fact that this is the first thing that entered my mind probably says something worrying about my mental state, possibly along the lines of that mythical diagnostic test with the story about the woman who met her dream man at a funeral.
I'd generally expect the Duke of Wellington's reaction.
"Hard pounding, gentlemen. Let us see who can pound the longest."
Well, you blackmail a number of rich idiots and get each of them to chip in.
Plus, if these rich idiots are married, they stand to lose 50% of their net worth when their wives divorce them for adultery. That's probably more than a college education.
Except they are prob on their second wives and have prenups.
A relatively common provision in prenups is "If i can convince a hot college girl to have sex with me, you cannot object."
In contrast to those who think the trend piece aspect of this is bunk, my completely anecdotal sense is that there really is an upward tick over the last 10 years of college-educated women doing sex work in their 20s. I can't find any meaningful statistics, though.
Krugman has covered this and thinks you might be right about that.
Yes, it's prurient, and I'm probably a dirty old man for even linking to it -- although what really caught my eye was just how closely reality echoes Woody Allen's (speaking of dirty old men) story "The Whore of Mensa".
But there is some economics here too. Thomas Piketty tells us that we're living in a new Belle Epoque -- and he's right, in some ways contemporary society feels more like that era than the cruder, more hypocritical American Gilded Age -- and one thing extreme inequality brings is, yes, a courtesan class.
Sorry, blockquote fail, apart from the first line it's all Krugman, baby.
85: Seriously? In the fine print? The future wife doesn't object? Add a "cougar clause" about a hot college boy?
I'd generally expect the Duke of Wellington's reaction.
Help out us ignorant yokels?
There was a law and order episode with a prenup where a certain amount was allocated, but the other spouse got nothing in the event of adultery.
Many prenups have complete waivers of spousal support, waivers of claim against retirement accounts or other things earned from one's employment during the marriage.
There isn't a tremendous consequence to having a college-aged mistress.
Even without a prenup, in Va, adultery only really serves to bar one spouse from receiving spousal support. If you are the higher wage earner, committing adultery does not have a tremendous financial consequence.
Virginia is for lovers, IYKWIMAITYD.
93: depends on where you choose to get divorced. IIRC English courts tend to ignore prenups.
What did her memoirs reveal about the Duke? He was, she wrote, her 'faithful lover, whose love survived six winters'. He was 'my own Wellington, who sighed over me and groaned over me by the hour, talked of my wonderful beauty, ran after me . . .' and he was 'my constant visitor', a 'modern Bluebeard', 'my old beau'.
modern Bluebeard???
The tell-all aristocrat blackmail is the plot of at least two Georgette Heyer novels, but she didn't use the Bluebeard line.
I read "Bluebeard" as prone to saying things like "I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you." Keeping secrets.
Groaning for more than an hour before Viagra is pretty impressive.
"It was a close thing - I think the closest thing I ever saw in my life, by God! - I don't think it would have done if I had not been there."