Re: Guest Post: Happy Mother's Day!

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You got me fair and square.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 7:51 AM
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I just got an email from the weight loss program I did in 2015/16 that they're temporarily out of the chocolate-flavored meal replacements, and thought "Is this the same flooding affecting cacao production?"

Research suggests there is indeed a cacao shortage, in which climate is also a factor, but more in Ghana and Ivory Coast.


Posted by: Minivet | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 11:04 AM
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When I was a kid we were told that Mother's Day was derived from "Mothering Sunday",which was a day which was a day when bound apprentices got leave of absence to visit their mothers. No idea if there's any truth in that, but it makes a good story. And it would support the Mothers' Day punctuation.


Posted by: chris y | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 11:08 AM
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The Wikipedia entry on the day suggests that it was more about mothering in general - Virgin Mary, bounty of mother Earth, etc. - whence visiting mother church, whence giving servants a day off to do so.

Reacting to Anna Jarvis's efforts to establish Mother's Day in 1913, Constance Penswick Smith created the Mothering Sunday Movement.

Posted by: Minivet | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 12:11 PM
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That is, the day did exist going back centuries, but its modern revival by Smith was in reaction to the American version.


Posted by: Minivet | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 12:12 PM
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I call it my "extra birthday".


Posted by: heebie | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 2:18 PM
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I call Father's Day "Mother Fuckers Day. "


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 3:23 PM
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7: Crude, yet accurate.


Posted by: peep | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 3:56 PM
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Reminds me of a story of how my BIL was once being bad as a teenager and his mom called him a son of a bitch and everyone was like "uhhh"


Posted by: SP | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 4:21 PM
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It's just the symmetry is right there.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 5:01 PM
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Apparently the Northern Lights reached all the way down to Texas? Like people in right outside town saw them? I'm very disappointed - always wanted to see them and just didn't know to look. :(


Posted by: heebie | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 8:45 PM
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Are they already done?


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 8:57 PM
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I assumed you get 30 seconds, just like the eclipse. Make the most of it.


Posted by: heebie | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 8:59 PM
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No, they're going on all night, supposedly hasn't hit the peak yet. Im pretty surprised that they'd get anywhere near you though. We got a faint image with a 3 second exposure.


Posted by: Unfoggetarian: β€œPause endlessly, then go in” (9) | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 9:52 PM
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Visible with the naked eye hear. Streaks running straight overhead.


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 10:08 PM
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I posted a pic on FB which os striking because it includes the moon. Setting in the west, as it is wont to do.


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 05-10-24 10:37 PM
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Posted by: Joy N. | Link to this comment | 05-11-24 12:30 PM
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Seven years is less than I'm thinking.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-11-24 12:45 PM
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11: I think they're supposed to continue through tonight, so you have another shot. NYC is cloudy and light-pollutioned, so we're hopeless.


Posted by: | Link to this comment | 05-11-24 1:03 PM
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People were putting up beautiful pictures they took and I thought I was missing something. Turns out the pictures that looked nice and were from Pittsburgh were time lapse. That's like taking "eclipse photos" but putting a big ball in front of your camera lens.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-11-24 2:39 PM
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NMM to Roger Corman. American cinema since the 60s is unimaginable without him. Just the number of top list talent he discovered, mentored, nurtured is astonishing: Martin Scorsese, Peter Bogdanovich, Jack Nicholson, Jonathan Demme, James Cameron, Bruce Dern, Diane Ladd, Dennis Hopper, the list goes on and on. A real mensch by every account and never failed to make a buck on a picture. There will never be another like him.

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Posted by: Barry Freed | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 8:04 AM
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20 It's night. If you don't do a 2 or 3 second exposure it's just black.


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 5:08 PM
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I thought they were cheating because I couldn't see anything that was clearly a northern light.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 5:20 PM
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Light pollution easily masks the aurora borealis. It's not cheating to take a long exposure shot, but the colors are paler in real life, at least this far south.


Posted by: Cala | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 5:45 PM
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Where I was (and I'm guessing where Moby was) you literally couldn't see them with the naked eye, only with photos. Which does seem different than just needing long exposure to capture what you were seeing.

Maybe they could be seen with the naked eye here if you got somewhere that was both dark and had a good view of the northern horizon, but I failed at finding a good place.


Posted by: Unfoggetarian: "Pause endlessly, then go in" (9) | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 6:10 PM
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Yes, that's what it was like here.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 6:13 PM
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My favorite picture of the week is the NYPD assistant chief who maced himself.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 6:15 PM
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21: "This joint looks like a meeting of the Roger Corman Alumni Association." --Robert Towne on the 1975 Academy Awards, where he, DeNiro, Ellen Burstyn, Francis Ford Coppola, and Carmine Coppola all took home Oscars. (Corman himself was in attendance, as the American distributor of the Best Foreign Language Film-winning Amarcord.) (Burstyn had a fairly length set of TV credits before she appeared in Pit Stop, but on the other hand Art Carney shouldn't have beaten Nicholson.)


Posted by: snarkout | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 7:14 PM
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Apparently, I'd conflated Roger Corman and Russ Meyer.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 8:00 PM
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Interesting the Netherlands hosts the flower auctions.


Posted by: Mossy Character | Link to this comment | 05-12-24 10:18 PM
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They know flowers.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 12:19 AM
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Cut flowers in the US mostly come from Colombia, I think. I haven't heard about any shortages but I haven't been paying close attention.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 12:21 AM
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Except for peonies, which are a lucrative niche industry in Alaska due to a fortuitous intersection of economic and ecological conditions.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 12:25 AM
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Kindly elaborate, good sir!


Posted by: Mossy Character | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 5:38 AM
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I understand that there's a carve-out in the wildlife protection laws that allows Alaskan Natives to hunt a certain number of peonies per year using traditional methods (harpoons, kayaks), so they've managed to keep the skills alive.


Posted by: ajay | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 6:58 AM
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34: This link explains it briefly. Basically, because of the cooler climate peonies bloom later in the summer in Alaska than in the Lower 48, so they're available for weddings at the times people typically prefer to get married.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 12:20 PM
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They're also bigger because of all the sunlight, but the timing is the main thing.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 12:22 PM
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I thought 37 was about the Portuguese.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 12:23 PM
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woo hoo! kiddo got his first acceptance by a peer reviewed journal! πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰


Posted by: dairy queen | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 6:24 PM
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That's great.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 6:34 PM
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Interesting. Implication being, Chile and NZ supply Chinese New Year?


Posted by: Mossy Character | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 7:04 PM
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Chinese New Year is on my son's school calendar. There is also "Nirvana Day". To be clear, it wasn't a day off even thought it was on the calendar. I tried to get him to dress in flannel, but he wouldn't go for it.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 7:13 PM
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While I am certainly no Buddhist, it seems unlikely to me that Nirvana is subject to scheduling.


Posted by: Mossy Character | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 7:16 PM
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Oh right. It's probably just a Buddhist holiday.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 7:20 PM
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39 Wow!


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 7:59 PM
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February 8 or 15, usually. There's no reason _not_ to wear flannel.


Posted by: lourdes kayak | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 9:35 PM
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Congratulations to you and the kiddo, dq!


Posted by: Barry Freed | Link to this comment | 05-13-24 10:31 PM
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thank you mobes charley & barry! now all that is lacking for a v fond mother is evidence of a nice young man on the horizon 🀣.


Posted by: dairy queen | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 6:18 AM
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they're available for weddings at the times people typically prefer to get married.

That's interesting because my impression (unscientific, personal experience) is that spring is the popular time for weddings - in the US people prefer summer?


Posted by: ajay | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:25 AM
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Yes, because if the bride is a high school student, it's easier for her to get away.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:26 AM
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Very considerate!


Posted by: ajay | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:29 AM
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I don't know how accurate it is, but the first list I found said the most popular months in the US for weddings are (in order): October, September, June, May, August.


Posted by: Unfoggetarian: "Pause endlessly, then go in" (9) | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:39 AM
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The weather is better in October in much of the U.S.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:41 AM
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Prom is usually in May, so you notice the pregnancy by July and plan as quickly as you can to minimize the chances the baby shows. You probably can't make August happen, so you've got September and October.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:51 AM
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53: yeah, there's presumably a huge difference from state to state for that reason. October wedding probably lovely in South Carolina. Not in Maine.


Posted by: ajay | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:52 AM
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October is probably your best bet for good weather for wearing formal clothing as far north as New York.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:53 AM
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At least the first couple of weeks of October.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:54 AM
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And apparently I was wrong and August is the commonest month for weddings in the UK. Unless there is a global pandemic. https://www.statista.com/statistics/933431/most-popular-wedding-months-in-uk/

I went to one once that was on 31 December. Reception rolled straight into a Hogmanay party. That was a fun evening...


Posted by: ajay | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:55 AM
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My cousin's kid got married outside in Kansas in August. Fortunately, only the actual wedding was outside and that side doesn't do proper religious weddings.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 7:58 AM
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We never developed much of a habit of celebrating our wedding anniversary. The day we picked was a beautiful Saturday in September, but then a couple of years later, someone else picked the same day for other things.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 8:02 AM
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We got married in November, but yes, summer and early fall are more popular.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 10:07 AM
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My cousin's other kid just invited us to a November wedding in Texas.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 10:09 AM
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Which I think means they'll be legally married in the normal states too.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 10:19 AM
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I'm not a lawyer, that's not legal advice.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 11:13 AM
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If it is legal advice, it isn't good legal advice.


Posted by: Moby Hick | Link to this comment | 05-14-24 11:33 AM
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