Re: You've Got Questions; We Have Answers

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My estimate would be "too precious by three-quarters."


Posted by: Adam Kotsko | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:43 AM
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Shush, Kotsko-- we finally get new content around here and you have to be all critical.

I promise not to reverse DNS you and post your IP

heh-indeedy.


Posted by: FL | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:47 AM
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everyone else will be little gits

See, I'm proven right already. I'm such an astute observer of human nature; everyone should be asking me for advice.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:47 AM
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So the idea is that people will email their problems to some random person on the internet so that their problems can be ridiculed for the general amusement of readers and commenters alike?


Posted by: FL | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:49 AM
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I'm going to genuinely attempt to give advice, if anyone emails me. I just can't control other people.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:51 AM
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Do we have to wait for people to e-mail their problems to the Mineshaft to mock them?


Posted by: Armsmasher | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:51 AM
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How do you decide at what point a request for advice is so pathetic and/or zany to be deserving of ridicule? And at that point, do you post it anyway?


Posted by: pdf23ds | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:53 AM
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I am going to treat all requests for advice that seem serious seriously. I won't post any request for advice without also trying to answer the question.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:55 AM
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If [any of my co-bloggers] want to give advice, they can indicate so in comments.

I'm always willing to give advice, whether you want to hear it or not.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:05 AM
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What about an askthemineshaft@unfogged.com address? I don't want to choose between y'all if I want advice.


Posted by: Armsmasher | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:06 AM
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I'm willing to give advice, too, but I don't know who'd want it. "Hi Becks, I've always admired your ability to be drunk and irresponsible. Can you help me screw up my life, too? And can you teach me how to crash my server while you're at it? Thanks!"


Posted by: Becks | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:11 AM
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What about an askthemineshaft@unfogged.com address? I don't want to choose between y'all if I want advice.

Dear Armsmasher,

You sound conflicted, which is understandable when presented with such a dazzling array of minds from which to choose. Clearly, you have some serious sorting out of priorities in front of you before you begin dealing with this particular problem head on. I suggest that the first thing you do is a little investigative searching so you can correct your initial error and go bang your mom's friend.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:12 AM
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(Although my comment shouldn't be construed as saying this is a bad idea. I think it could be fun. Some of the blegs people have done here have resulted in really interesting reads and this is basically like offering up Unfogged to blegs from the crowd.)


Posted by: Becks | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:14 AM
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This is, by the way, a good idea, since we're always making fun of Randy Cohen anyway. If no one writes in, we could just answer old Tennis or Savage questions.

It also has the potential to turn into one of those hilarious Onion columns, like "ask a gut-shot cop" or something.


Posted by: FL | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:16 AM
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But I get dibs on the syndication rights to "Ask Steven den Beste."


Posted by: FL | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:17 AM
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Well, I think this is a great idea, since I've been knocking around a question I thought the Unfoggedariat could answer. Kudos.


Posted by: Matthew Harvey | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:21 AM
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I suggest that the first thing you do is a little investigative searching so you can correct your initial error and go bang your mom's friend.

Yeah. 'Smasher's response to said situation really makes me wonder whether he would go with aliens to explore the universe.


Posted by: SomeCallMeTim | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:22 AM
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I need advice on whether the following example constitutes a reference, or is just naming, and can't remember the Frege translations that I read three years ago.

The following is on the cover letter for an article:

To: Article Editor
From: [Name]
Date: February 27, 2006
Re: "[title of article]"
I enclose for your consideration the above-referenced article which ...

Isn't the author just wrong to claim that he or she referenced the article above?


Posted by: washerdreyer | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:24 AM
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w/d: no. He referred to the article by giving its name.


Posted by: Matt Weiner | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:26 AM
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17: That's an empirical question, since it depends on the contents of the second video drawer. I keep thinking about Cartman's mom, and it's creeping me the hell out.


Posted by: FL | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:26 AM
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or she, dammit.


Posted by: Matt Weiner | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:26 AM
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As a practitioner, that's standard lawyer-speak. I open four letters a week with:

"Re: Cats v. Dogs, No: 05-123456

Dewey, Cheatem & Howe represents defendant Dogs in the above referenced case..."


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:28 AM
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20: I've never seen a full episode of South Park; the "Cartman's mom" reference is lost on me.


Posted by: SomeCallMeTim | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:30 AM
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I've never seen a full episode of South Park;

I hope you've seen the movie, otherwise you missed Labs' awesome "I don't listen to hip-hop" joke yesterday.


Posted by: washerdreyer | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:32 AM
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the "Cartman's mom" reference is lost on me.

"Mom, if you were in a German schiesse film, you would tell me, right?"


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:42 AM
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Mixed with your garden variety Vivid Video fare were amateur fetish tapes of what I now understand to be a humiliation subgenre called CFNM.


Posted by: Armsmasher | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:43 AM
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Soul of Miss Tia, glorify me.

Body of Miss Tia, nourish me.

Blood of Miss Tia, intoxicate me.

Tears of Miss Tia, wash me.

Oh good Miss Tia, excuse my plea,

And hide me in your heart,

And defend me from mine enemies.

Help me, Miss Tia, help me, help me.

In saecula saeculorum. Amen.


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:44 AM
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Tia: like Mozart, I am a copraphile. Dan Savage, a supposed "liberal", says that copraphilia is disgusting. Does he think that Mozart's Symphony #40 in D Minor is disgusting too?

Do you hate Mozart too, or are you willing to admit that copraphilia is OK?

D**** in S*****


Posted by: John Emerson | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:45 AM
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Dear Tia,

I'm trying to start an online advice column/blog. Do you have any suggestions or advice?

Danke,

Curious in C-ville


Posted by: Stanley | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:52 AM
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Crap. You already used "Curious." I amend to "Albeit in Albemarle," which doesn't make sense but neither does setting up your state as a commonwealth.


Posted by: Stanley | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 9:55 AM
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By the way, damn you Weiner, I now need to come up with a non-insane reason to reject the article.

I'm kidding, we don't reject articles due to bad cover letters. Bad paper stock on the other hand...


Posted by: washerdreyer | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 10:18 AM
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Dear Tia,

What paper stock would you suggest I use when submitting my article?


Posted by: Mo MacArbie | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 10:44 AM
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I only answer questions submitted via email.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 10:49 AM
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Also, Emerson, I think the first word of your pseud had one too many asterisks, the second, two.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 10:54 AM
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Dear Tia,

Why must you be such a little bitch?


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 10:55 AM
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Dear Ben,

Given the depth of the identity disturbance you just indicated, for you, I will make an exception. Go to the mirror and repeat the following affirmation: I am Ben w-lfs-n. I must be such a little bitch.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 10:58 AM
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John Emerson, an error unworthy of you! Symphony #40 is in G minor!


Posted by: Mark | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 11:15 AM
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I'm willing to answer anything.

This sounds pretty much like a challenge. And the only honorable response is to accept. We must collectively come up with a question so inappropriate that Tia is unwilling to try and answer it "with tact and sensitivity."


Posted by: Urple | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 11:27 AM
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I volunteer to answer any such question tactlessly and insensitively.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 11:30 AM
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I'd like to see Miss Tia tell fortunes, like Miss Cleo.


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 12:28 PM
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I've already gotten two really hard questions for the advice column. I'm a bit nervous about what I got myself into.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:11 PM
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You know, there's a blogger out there offering to give advice. Perhaps you should e-mail her at ask-meta-tia at unfogged.com.


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:15 PM
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That was probably tactless and insensitive.


Posted by: | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:17 PM
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You could ask Ray.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:18 PM
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Let the record show that 43 was posted by me.


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:18 PM
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This is reminding me of the thing with the djins in Godel, Escher, Bach, except I can't quite remember it.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:19 PM
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I find the best thing to say when people want advice is, "I think you should go across the hall and see the social worker."


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:29 PM
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Maybe that's just me.


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:30 PM
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I'm formulating an answer to the first one already that I think will be at least decent. So I don't need metatia.


Posted by: Tia | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:33 PM
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On the metatia theme, it just occurred to me that the best scene in a therapy drama is always the one where the shrink goes to see a shrink.


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:38 PM
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It also occurs to me that I seem to have seen many therapy dramas.


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:41 PM
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I thought I thought that Intimate Strangers was a good movie, but can't remember most of it, or even if that's what I thought.


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:49 PM
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My favorite therapy drama is also French: Diary of a Seducer.


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:55 PM
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Who knew Kierkegaard had an imdb entry?


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 3:57 PM
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Personally, I can't wait for the screen version of Two Edifying Discourses.


Posted by: ac | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 4:02 PM
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Didn't they make that into a sitcom? Two Edifying Discourses, A Girl, And A Pizza Place?


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 4:03 PM
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And what about the domestic drama: The Concept of Ironing?


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 4:12 PM
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I see nobody's mentioned Fear and Trembling Factor.


Posted by: Standpipe Bridgeplate | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 5:23 PM
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Watch women eat maggots on national television, and yet not humiliate themselves—by virtue of the absurd.


Posted by: Standpipe Bridgeplate | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 5:27 PM
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The bite of infinite resignation.


Posted by: eb | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 5:31 PM
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I so want to claim to be "Anticipating in Albuquerque," but such a claim would be inaccurate since that's not where I am.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 7:40 PM
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Perhaps I will sign my missive, Stunningly Ordinary in South Orange.


Posted by: The Modesto Kid | Link to this comment | 03- 7-06 8:46 PM
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