Re: I'm Sure I'm Just Overly Touchy

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Thank the Occulted Twelfth Imam and his right-hand man at the Apocalypse Jesus Christ for tenure!


Posted by: Brad DeLong | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:44 AM
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You forget Moroni.


Posted by: Jackmormon | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:45 AM
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You're not the first to have noticed the phenomenon, Carl Von C. wrote about it after seeing my department's ordering of two *different* kinds of pizza.

"Everything in war is very simple, but the simplest thing is difficult. The difficulties accumulate and end by producing a kind of friction. . . . This tremendous friction . . . is everywhere in contact with chance, and brings about effects that cannot be measured, just because they are largely due to chance. . . . Moreover, every war is rich in unique episodes."

"The good general must know friction in order to overcome it whenever possible, and in order not to expect a standard of achievement in his operations which this very friction makes impossible."

"Is there any lubricant that will reduce this abrasion? Only one . . . combat experience."


Posted by: Biohazard | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:47 AM
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Did you hit him/her?


Posted by: Clownaesthesiologist | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:47 AM
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Yes. Fistfights are common in the halls of Dewey, Cheatham and Howe.

No, I smiled and remained polite while the other associate mused about maybe calling an accounting firm? Because they'd know.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:49 AM
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"Fistfights" s/b "Fisticuffs"


Posted by: Clownaesthesiologist | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:51 AM
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Just think of the hours you can bill trying to find a statute that doesn't exist...

(getting the client to pay for said research might require some creativity, however)


Posted by: Pooh | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:52 AM
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Doing research to prove a negative is always so much fun.


Posted by: DaveL | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:53 AM
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6: "cuff" s/b "ng"


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 11:58 AM
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I live to pwn.


Posted by: Pooh | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:00 PM
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You know, in case law, sure, proving a negative is hard. This is a freaking statute. It's there or it isn't. And I'm looking at a case saying 'There's no such statute' (which, she was correct that it was phrased as an assertion of one side's, but the court went on to reason from it, and didn't note any correction from the other side. The odds that (a) I'm going to miss the statute, and (b) someone's going to submit a brief in a federal case claiming that there is no such statute, and (c) the court is going to inexplicably overlook the party's error in (b), but really there is such a statute despite all that? Low).

I'm just grumpy, though.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:01 PM
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OK, sometimes proving a negative isn't so hard.

Also: when we, mere pixels on a screen, generally understand that it's a bad idea to argue with LB when she's done the work and knows what she's talking about, what the fuck is wrong with an actual colleague who doesn't get that?


Posted by: DaveL | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:07 PM
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I haven't worked with her much at all before. And I'm really not frightening in person. Gentle and harmless -- lamblike, in most respects. That's me.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:09 PM
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I'm guessing that the mineshaft gives more due credit to each other than do the average associates at any given law firm. From what I've gathered, LB's firm seems to be somewhat zero-sum as far as associate success and advancement are concerned.


Posted by: Pooh | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:10 PM
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LB, if your experience match mine at all, she might be the type who masks insecurity over her own abilities with outward expressions of hyper-confidence, right?


Posted by: Pooh | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:13 PM
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13: It's not that you're scary. It's just that when you think you're right, you usually are, which means that setting out to tell you you're wrong generally ends up being embarrassing. OTOH, an inability to feel embarrassment or shame is a survival trait in law firms, so perhaps your colleague will go far.


Posted by: DaveL | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:13 PM
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15: Eh, I'm not theorizing, just griping. What's a blog for if not to give onesided accounts of annoying moments in your day?


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:19 PM
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(1) You have the right to tell her to go fuck herself (and not in a good way). Or at least, to say "Huh. I didn't see anything like that. If you find a cite for the statute you think might apply I would be pleased to take a look at it."

And I'm really not frightening in person. Gentle and harmless -- lamblike, in most respects. That's me.

(2) You forget that there are people who know you who read this blog.


Posted by: Idealist | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:19 PM
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Gentle and harmless -- lamblike, in most respects. That's me.

I can see I need to revise my mental image: muttering "baa" not "bah!". And I suppose that even in law firms 'fleece' can be a noun, not a verb.


Posted by: Michael H Schneider | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:22 PM
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masks insecurity over her own abilities with outward expressions of hyper-confidence

Oh, god. This is nearly everyone I interact with at school. It's one of the most maddening things in the world.


Posted by: m. leblanc | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:24 PM
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lamblike, in most respects

LB's rack is often the most expensive entrée on the menu.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:28 PM
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Genius, 'er


Posted by: Pooh | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:32 PM
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Especially when properly Frenched.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:32 PM
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(1) You have the right to tell her to go fuck herself (and not in a good way). Or at least, to say "Huh. I didn't see anything like that. If you find a cite for the statute you think might apply I would be pleased to take a look at it."

I essentially did the latter.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:33 PM
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You forget Moroni.

Each time I see this as the thread loads, I hear it in my head in the voice of Wakko from Animaniacs saying, "You forgot Uranus!" Goooood night, everybody.


Posted by: redfoxtailshrub | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:36 PM
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11: (a) is clearly the important part of this trifecta, though. The likelihood of (b) and (c) occurring is reasonably high, in my experience.


Posted by: Rousseau | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:37 PM
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"Lamblike". Mmmmm. Mint jelly.


Posted by: John Emerson | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:41 PM
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You are a bigger person than I. I generally want to slap the partners who do that, too. Perhaps the partners even more so, as at least there's a chance your fellow associate has actually attempted to do some legal research in the last decade.

Smile sweetly and bill the hours...


Posted by: Di Kotimy | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 12:52 PM
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You seem a bit touchy to me. People in general are arrogant and reluctant to admit error, lawyers by reputation even more so. So you should be use to it by now.


Posted by: James B. Shearer | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:03 PM
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No, no. That's not being generally touchy. What you're picking up there is that I find you specifically annoying.

It's an understandable mistake.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:10 PM
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30: LB, and I say this in a safe, non-threatening way, but I love you a little bit.


Posted by: FL | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:14 PM
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30: understandable s/b unavoidable


Posted by: soubzriquet | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:14 PM
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30 is awesome.


Posted by: Cala | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:18 PM
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Actually I was talking about your interaction with the other lawyer.


Posted by: James B. Shearer | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:26 PM
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34 see 32


Posted by: soubzriquet | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:27 PM
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15, 20: C'mon, aren't we all like that?

34: How nice of you, James. I'm sure LB deeply appreciates your concern for her mental health.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:51 PM
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LB handled it just right - sometimes the only aggression is passive aggression.


Posted by: Dammitman! | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:56 PM
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36: No, some of us are annoyingly diffident.


Posted by: mcmc | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:56 PM
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38: Not you, though.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 2:58 PM
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aren't we all like that?

No, my hyper-confidence results from my essential fabulousness.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 3:03 PM
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aren't we all like that?

This is a joke, right?


Posted by: I don't pay | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 3:11 PM
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my essential fabulousness.

This is the same thing as your claim to be gay where it counts, right?


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 3:14 PM
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aren't we all like that

No. I'm hyper-confident in areas that I have cause to be, and candid when I don't know what the fuck I'm doing, which is most of the time.

Also, what apo said.


Posted by: m. leblanc | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 3:18 PM
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Did the associate ask you to help? Is he/she senior to you, and by how much? Maybe you can just say, "Hey, buddy, I guess my research skillz aren't good enough for you. Go find someone else."


Posted by: Gaijin Biker | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 6:02 PM
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I feel your pain, LB. My own pet peeve is the semi-daily e-mail message, "does anyone know the answer to X," where X = question-answerable-by-obvious-use-of-Westlaw.

It's like, damn, I thought the firm was paying for *everyone* to use Westlaw, not just me.


Posted by: Anderson | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 7:01 PM
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Gentle and harmless -- lamblike, in most respects. That's me.

Perhaps the associate was nonplussed by the vision of the Zombie Shari Lewis's hand up your ass.


Posted by: Dr Paisley | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 7:34 PM
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45 -- A former partner of mine would often respond with 'Crack a book.'

LB, back in the day, I asked a few people from time to time if they wanted to bet lunch. They either slink away, or you get to lord it over them -- tastefully, of course -- not only during lunch, but in the run-up as it's arranged, and as you have to decline other invitations.


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 7:40 PM
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I'm still owed lunch from a former colleague who would have bet yet more on the proposition that Arlington, Virginia was never part of the District of Columbia. I was too embarrassed for him to collect.


Posted by: CharleyCarp | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 7:44 PM
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My own pet peeve is the semi-daily e-mail message, "does anyone know the answer to X," where X = question-answerable-by-obvious-use-of-Westlaw.

This does not seem so bad. I take questions of this sort as meannig "Does anyone have an answer immediately at hand (for example, a brief, model submission, etc.). Why should a client have to pay for associate B to research the proper procedure to do X when associate A has the answer immediately at hand?

Do you research anew the basic standard for a motion to dismiss every time you make one? Me, I copy the basic stuff from an old brief and then research the stuff (if any) that is unique about my case, charging only for the new work I actually do.


Posted by: Idealist | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 8:45 PM
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43, 40: Well, aren't you two just superior.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 9:58 PM
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Not just superior, no.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 10:05 PM
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Also aware of such.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 10:07 PM
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I'm really hoping the irony of the whole no-I-don't-mask-*my*-insecurities thing isn't lost on everyone.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 10:21 PM
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That sort of thing really worries you, huh?


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 10:30 PM
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It drives me batshit. No one ever gets my jokes.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 01-11-07 10:49 PM
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36: To a degree yes, but some people are pretty extreme about it.


Posted by: Pooh | Link to this comment | 01-12-07 12:20 PM
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49: I take questions of this sort as meannig "Does anyone have an answer immediately at hand (for example, a brief, model submission, etc.).

I think you have to see the kinds of questions I'm talking about. The kind for ex that a mere search on he("12(b)(6)") would answer. If I hadn't just archived all my e-mail into practical inaccessibilty, I would provide real-life examples for your amusement.


Posted by: Anderson | Link to this comment | 01-12-07 2:37 PM
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re: 57

I see what you mean. That can be annoying. I have a colleague who is all the time coming in to my office to ask me questions about New York procedure. I guess it's nice that he thinks I am a great expert on New York practice, but it would be nice if he looked at the rules himself, for once (although in fairness, in New York, the rules are not all written in one place, and some are not written at all).


Posted by: Idealist | Link to this comment | 01-12-07 4:06 PM
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