Re: Modern Love: Much Confusion

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How about "what are you thinking?"?


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:11 AM
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The Joey Tribbiani approach?


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:12 AM
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Whodat?


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:14 AM
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Friends. "How you doin'?"


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:15 AM
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I'm ok.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:16 AM
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Third base.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:17 AM
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A column, by any other name, would smell as foul.

I ban myself.


Posted by: pdf23ds | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:18 AM
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The definition of third base must have changed a lot.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:21 AM
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I'd sort of like to know whether the feature is a genuine effort to provide enjoyable content, or just a cynical attempt to make something deliberately bad that readers will be able to scorn. Speaking of which, is The Ethicist having a chat anytime soon?


Posted by: tom | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:57 AM
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So, like, ask, tom.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 10:58 AM
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"Do you have to work hard in order to find the most narcissistic young writers every week, or will anyone spat out of the creative writing workshop do?"


Posted by: Cala | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:04 AM
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These are all good questions—why waste them here?


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:05 AM
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I thought we were taking up a collection of questions, that you might submit them.


Posted by: Cala | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:07 AM
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No, no -- go, follow the link. The guy is answering questions right now.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:08 AM
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I did follow the link. I just figured this was a collective Unfogged project, where ben would be the message bitch.


Posted by: Cala | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:12 AM
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I hope you've now submitted a question, Cala. And you too, tom.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:14 AM
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I submitted a version of tom's question, but I doubt it'll get approved.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:39 AM
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Dear Modern Love, I just found out that I was adopted My parents separated when I was very young, and my adoptive mother started a new family. I just met my foster half-sister for the first and she is really hott. What I'm asking is......


Posted by: John Emerson | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:45 AM
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11:

Essays that appear are selected from the hundreds we receive every month and subjected to a rigorous editorial process.

This is what passes?? Sigh.


Posted by: Magpie | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:51 AM
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w-lfs-n, quasi-sonnets? You ARE the message bitch..


Posted by: Peter | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:56 AM
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They, like Hopkins' curtal sonnets, are modifications of the sonnet form.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 11:59 AM
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All the people posting about their love for the column are bumming me out.


Posted by: redfoxtailshrub | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 12:06 PM
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Does his response about the Ashley Cross essay make sense, or not?


Posted by: Doctor Slack | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 12:07 PM
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23: I would say not entirely. No one reading the article, without additional reading, would have known that the accusations against the man involved were such that if they were accurate, an innocent misunderstanding was really really implausible. There's something wrong with publishing an essay based on publicly available facts that gives such a misleading impression of what they were.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 12:13 PM
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"Marriage in America is to love as laxatives are to constipation. Something that makes everyhing flow much easier."

I wonder who wears the diapers in that marriage?


Posted by: Paul | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 12:57 PM
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A sonnet, the way redfoxtailshrub's couplets were couplets, albeit cowardly couplets.


Posted by: John Emerson | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 1:09 PM
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twisty told me I couldn't condemn bPhd for becoming a hired tool of the pornulator conspiracy on IBtP, so I came over here.

And I find her conspicuously absent. Hmmmm...


Posted by: bob mcmanus | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 1:32 PM
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Dear Sara,

There are several tip-offs to me that an essay might be turned down before I've finished reading it: if it begins with tone of blame, if it feels shallow in terms of what it promises to explore...

Oh man.


Posted by: redfoxtailshrub | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 2:27 PM
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27: I'm too busy responding to my hate mail. That, plus I had to go to the bank this afternoon, before picking up PK (in fifteen minutes) and spending the rest of the afternoon/evening helping him make* 21 valentine's day cards.

*Which pisses me off, but it's a tradition Mr. B. started and I can't talk PK into just buying some at the goddamn store.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 2:47 PM
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29:Valentine cards & hate mail: good enough for me.

B fell off my blogroll during one my recent weekly crash-aand burns, but she will return hostpaste. Tho I am afeared of that comment thread.


Posted by: bob mcmanus | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 2:57 PM
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Yeah, the comment thread is weird. Half intelligent discussion, half name-calling. Ah well.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 02-13-07 2:59 PM
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